Imagine you putting up heck of effort to pull something really nice for your loved one and they couldn’t show act of gratitude for what you did…
It will hurt, right…?
You might ignore it couple of times and keep trying your best to make the other one happy at every damn cost you could bear and each time they would lack gratitude, that underlying love will turn into hurt and it will keep piling up somewhere in your heart..
Admiration is the key to happy, healthy and long lasting relationship… if someone is trying to make you happy, saying thank you so much and meaning it full heartedly is the least you can do.. if you try to reciprocate the effort by making the other one happy in your way is TREMENDOUS but not even appreciating what they do for you is really disappointing…
And no matter how deeply and madly they love you, if you fail to admire it, soon it will vanish and you would be puzzled and keep wondering if all their promises and commitments were genuine or fake… Were they truly in love with you or not…?
They did truly love you. But when they realized they weren’t being treated the way they deserved, they slowly started distancing themselves. They withdrew from trying to make your life easier and chose to engage their energy elsewhere, in something else…and sometimes with someone else.
So if you want to be loved, ADMIRE them each single time as shower their love upon you… find QUALITY TIME to spend with them keeping that 6 inches worldly distraction called mobile away…
Be in the moment, try to create something MEANINGFUL than mere digital footprints…
Coz the world is full of options, don’t make them wonder if there is someone better out there...
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